Meet Lisa A. Romano

As a child, I was raised to believe my feelings were irrelevant, unworthy, and wrong. My parents were wounded unhealed adult children of alcoholics, whose idea of parenting was entirely focused on controlling their children's behavior. This meant, that Little Lisa, was programmed to detach from her inner worth. This faulty subconscious, cognitive distortion, was the foundation of codependency, a loss of selfhood, and a reality that taught me to disown my authenticity. 

Through my inner child healing, and codependency recovery journey, I went back to the roots of my inability to love the self, and discovered the patterns, programs and buried childhood experiences that robbed me of a right to operate in the world through my authentic self, without fear of rejection or abandonment. 

The Learn to Love The Self program is a four-part activation system that removes mental, emotional, and spiritual blocks preventing you from more consciously aligning with your inner child and higher self. It is my gift to those who, like me, burn with a desire for true transformation. 

"I Finally Know I Am Enough" – Karen's Transformation

When Karen first came to me, she felt trapped in a cycle of self-doubt, shame, and codependency. Raised by alcoholic parents, she grew up as the family caretaker—constantly giving to others while ignoring her own needs.

Her childhood was marked by chaos, unpredictability, and role reversal. She never received the healthy mirroring she needed to develop self-worth. Instead, she carried deep familial shame, believing on some level that she was unworthy of love, peace, and emotional safety.

But everything changed when Karen joined the Learn to Love the Self: 4 Part Activation Program.

Through this journey, she finally uncovered the root cause of her struggles. She learned why self-love felt so foreign to her—and, more importantly, how to cultivate it.

Today, Karen no longer abandons herself. She relies on the tools she learned to navigate difficult emotions with clarity and self-compassion. Most importantly, she now knows she was always enough.

Karen’s transformation is possible for you, too. Let's reclaim your self worth together!

Accept Yourself and Make Peace with Negative Emotions

Step One: The Key to True Self-Love—Radical Acceptance

Until we learn how to integrate our negative emotions, our brain will keep running from them—keeping us stuck in the same cycles of pain, self-doubt, and unworthiness. But here’s the truth: you cannot heal what you refuse to feel.

The first step in this transformational journey is learning how to fully accept where you are right now—without judgment, without resistance. In this step, I’ll guide you through powerful exercises to embrace all aspects of yourself, so you can finally release what’s been holding you back and start creating real, lasting change.

Your transformation starts here. Let’s begin.

Understand Yourself Psychological Self

If you don’t fully understand yourself—your needs, your emotions, and your patterns—how can you expect others to? True connection begins with self-awareness.

When you develop a deeper understanding of your psychological self, you gain clarity on why you think, feel, and react the way you do. This insight allows you to set realistic expectations—both for yourself and for others—freeing you from cycles of disappointment, resentment, and self-doubt.

With this newfound awareness, you naturally create space for healthier, more fulfilling relationships, not just with others, but with yourself. And that’s where true transformation begins.

Let’s unlock the clarity you need to love yourself fully.

Embrace the Inner Critic

Your inner critic has been running the show for far too long. Until you understand its voice—the faulty, negative, and often cruel messages buried in your subconscious—you’ll keep running from the very patterns that hold you back.

But here’s the truth: You are not your inner critic.

When you learn to observe these thoughts instead of reacting to them, everything shifts. Shame dissolves. Fear lifts. You begin to recognize that these limiting beliefs were never yours to begin with.

This lesson will guide you in embracing your inner critic—not as an enemy, but as a reflection of outdated programming. The moment you step into this awareness, you reclaim your power, breaking free from the cycle of self-doubt and negative self-talk.

Are you ready to silence the critic and step into self-empowerment?

Supreme Self Care

If you’ve ever felt disappointed because someone didn’t understand what you needed—without you saying a word—you’re not alone. Codependency and boundary struggles often lead to unspoken expectations, leaving you feeling unseen, unheard, and unfulfilled.

But here’s the truth: No one can validate you the way you can validate yourself.

When you seek external validation, you give away your power. You bend, you overgive, and you lose yourself in the process. But the moment you turn inward, everything shifts. You no longer need to be seen by others to feel worthy—you see yourself.

This lesson is where it all comes together. You’ll learn how to break free from validation-seeking behaviors, reclaim your voice, and step into radical self-acceptance.

Are you ready to finally feel whole—without needing anyone else to complete you?

Unlock Your Path to Self-Love and Empowerment with These Life-Changing Class Notes

These class notes are packed with transformative healing statements, backed by science-based insights, and filled with practical tools you can use to increase your self-worth, validate your divine self, and master the art of loving and respecting yourself.

You’ll gain immediate access to knowledge that not only elevates your self-esteem but also rewires your brain to embrace your worth.

Simply download, print, and keep these notes in a dedicated study binder. Refer to them whenever you need to reinforce new, empowering habits and self-loving programs. With these tools in hand, you’ll have everything you need to create lasting, positive change in your life.

Unlock Your Inner Truth with Powerful Journaling Prompts Designed to Transform Your Life

Have you ever felt like you're stuck in patterns you can't quite break, but you’re not sure how to change them? What if I told you that by simply asking yourself the right questions, you could begin to unravel those old, limiting beliefs that have kept you feeling small and unsure of yourself?

In this video and meditation program, I’ve taken the guesswork out of your healing journey. Each lesson includes journaling prompts I personally created to help you dig deep and uncover those self-sabotaging patterns that have been holding you back. You can't fix a hole in the wall until you see it, right? These prompts give you the clarity you need to see exactly what’s been blocking you, so you can begin healing.

These are powerful tools that will help you gain real insights into your subconscious, allowing you to address what’s been hidden in plain sight. I’ll guide you through the process, making it easy to reprogram your mindset from the inside out.

Rewire Your Brain for Self-Love with Powerful Meditations Designed for Transformation

Are you ready to break free from the negative beliefs that are holding you back? Deep-rooted beliefs form the foundation of every negative thought you have about yourself. These beliefs shape the way you see the world and, most importantly, the way you see yourself. The good news? You have the power to change them.

That’s why I’ve created specific meditations designed to help you unlock those negative messages and reprogram your subconscious for self-love. These guided meditations will help you shift your mindset, allowing you to let go of limiting beliefs and embrace the truth of who you really are.

It’s simple: You can’t expect to manifest love, peace, or abundance in your life if you don’t first love yourself. This is a critical step in the manifestation process. Rewiring your brain to love and respect yourself is the key to attracting the life you’ve always dreamed of. These meditations give you the tools to finally begin the transformation you’ve been waiting for.

Exclusive Members-Only Forum: Share Your Journey and Transform Together

Welcome to the Members-Only Forum—your safe space for connection, support, and growth. This is where you can share your personal breakthroughs, connect with others on the same path, and gain valuable insights into your healing journey.

By opening up about your struggles and triumphs, you not only accelerate your own growth but also help empower others who are walking this path with you. Why have you been stuck for so long? What shifts are you experiencing? By sharing your story, you’re not just contributing to a community—you’re reinforcing your transformation and supporting those who need it most.

Remember, your voice matters, and together, we create a powerful, supportive space where healing happens. Share your experiences, be inspired, and witness the magic unfold as we all move forward on this journey.

Start the Learn to Love the Self Program Today at Half Off the Regular Price!

This activation program was originally offered at $199, but we are offering it at only $99

Unlock Deep Self-Love and Lasting Transformation

This is your opportunity to invest in yourself and begin the journey toward profound self-love. The Learn to Love the Self: 4-Part Activation Program is designed to help you break free from limiting beliefs, heal emotional wounds, and step into your true worth.

With immediate access, you can start learning within minutes—gaining the tools, insights, and guided activations needed to shift your mindset and transform your life. Because if nothing changes, nothing changes.

Take advantage of this special offer while it lasts and begin the journey to self-love today!